On the 9th Day of Christmas Past…
Question: What can we learn from Joseph as pondered in today’s story?
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Maybe Christmas Doesn’t Come from a Store by Elder Holland
“…As a father I have recently begun to think more often of Joseph, that strong, silent, almost unknown man who must have been more worthy than any other mortal man to be the guiding foster father of the living Son of God. It was Joseph selected from among all men who would teach Jesus to work. It was Joseph who taught Him the books of the law. It was Joseph who, in the seclusion of the shop, helped Him begin to understand who He was and ultimately what He was to become.
I was a student at BYU just finishing my first year of graduate work when our first child, a son, was born. We were very poor, though not so poor as Joseph and Mary. My wife and I were both going to school, both holding jobs, and in addition worked as head residents in an off-campus apartment complex to help defray our rent. We drove a little Volkswagen which had a half-dead battery because we couldn’t afford a new one (Volkswagen or battery).
Nevertheless, when I realized that our own night of nights was coming, I believe I would have done any honorable thing in this world, and mortgaged any future I had, to make sure my wife had the clean sheets, the sterile utensils, the attentive nurses, and the skilled doctors who brought forth our firstborn son. If she or that child had needed special care at the Mayo Clinic, I believe I would have ransomed my very life to get it.
I compare those feelings (which I have had with each succeeding child) with what Joseph must have felt as he moved through the streets of a city not his own, with not a friend or kinsman in sight, nor anyone willing to extend a helping hand. In these very last and most painful hours of her “confinement,” Mary had ridden or walked approximately 100 miles from Nazareth in Galilee to Bethlehem in Judea. Surely Joseph must have wept at her silent courage. Now, alone and unnoticed, they had to descend from human company to a stable, a grotto full of animals, there to bring forth the Son of God.
I wonder what emotions Joseph might have had as he cleared away the dung and debris. I wonder if he felt the sting of tears as he hurriedly tried to find the cleanest straw and hold the animals back. I wonder if he wondered: “Could there be a more unhealthy, a more disease-ridden, a more despicable circumstance in which a child could be born? Is this a place fit for a king? Should the mother of the Son of God be asked to enter the valley of the shadow of death in such a foul and unfamiliar place as this? Is it wrong to wish her some comfort? Is it right He should be born here?”
But I am certain Joseph did not mutter and Mary did not wail. They knew a great deal and did the best they could.
Perhaps these parents knew even then that in the beginning of his mortal life, as well as in the end, this baby son born to them would have to descend beneath every human pain and disappointment. He would do so to help those who also felt they had been born without advantage.”
We learn to do the best we can with what we have.
We learn that if we do the best we can, our Heavenly Father will do the rest.
There’s a lot we can learn from Joseph, but “Go forth with Trust in the Lord” is my first thought.
We just do the best we can. I’ve always thought Joseph was such a good example of a righteous man.
Joseph is very often overlooked in the life of Jesus. I love Elder Holland’s words about what a good, honorable, righteous man he had to be, to be the stepfather to the Savior. He had to trust and have complete faith in God in order to fulfill this magnificent calling.
Much can be learned from Joseph. We can learn love, compassion, dedication and trusting in the Lord!
Joseph was compasionate and caring for his Wife, and understanding of what role he he and Mary played in bringing forth our Lord.
Do the best you can with what you are given in any circumstance. God will still be pleased.
We learn that Joseph was a compassionate, honorable man. Also, that he lovingly took care of Mary as she was about to deliver the Savior.
That he must have also been “highly favored” of God to be able to help raise the Son of God.
Joseph, like Mary, had been taught some basic truths about the child that they were to bring into the world. But, a lot like the apostles, it was when they lived it that they truly understood. Joseph is a great example of a father from what we know. He taught and loved the young child who was the Christ.
Joseph loved, cared for, trusted, and presided over the needs of Mary as best he could. He knew that God was with them and that His purposes would be fulfilled.